Against the Voice of Should

May 6, 2010

in Writing

Some­where in our heads, if you lis­ten hard enough, there is a voice that is the voice of Should. The voice of Should tells us how we should be doing things; how we should talk, how we should dress, how we should respond, how we should go along, how we should tol­er­ate. And in my head, this voice tells me how I should write.

And every time we do, our real voice – our Soul’s voice – gets buried under­neath sen­tences of sen­tences of what we should say, not what we want to say.

We die each time and we don’t know it.

A Writer’s Search for Meaning

And yet, in the quiet moments, our Soul’s voice finds sus­te­nance. When we allow our­selves to sim­ply speak our hearts – hon­estly, authen­ti­cally – even if we break the rules of con­ven­tion, our words find an audi­ence. It is not the deft manip­u­la­tion of words that res­onate with us, but the touch of recog­ni­tion one soul feels at lis­ten­ing to another soul’s voice, speak­ing over the voice of his shoulds. And we, when read­ing writ­ing like that, aren’t as impressed by the mes­sage of the words as we are by its authen­tic­ity, because we too, yearn to express our souls like that.

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