December 2009

Hav­ing some fun look­ing through what I wrote in 21 for the year of 2009. There aren’t a lot of posts, 44 in total for the entire 12 months (post­ing fre­quency was an issue, heh) but there are some in here that I’m pretty happy with.

Traces of Life Coaches Blog remained, with per­sonal growth posts like The 3 Declut­ter­ing Boxes in Jan­u­ary. I ven­tured into more poetic and per­sonal writ­ing like East Coast Night in Feb­ru­ary, which was some­thing I wanted to do more of. I’m proud of the Mar­tial Arts is Deal­ing with Self-Defense Fail­ure post I pub­lished in March, I spent a lot of time mak­ing it as good as I could and it encap­su­lates a lot of what I think about mar­tial arts and self-defense train­ing today.

The 2 Ulti­mate Secrets to Blog­ging Like a Rock Star (Hint: it’s Not What You Want to Hear) in April was awe­some, if I do say so myself. This was another post I spent a lot of time craft­ing, and I love how it com­bines snark with some seri­ous thoughts about blog­ging well.

Lessons Learned at 30 was writ­ten in May, the month of my birth­day in the year I turned the big three-oh. It was writ­ten in a rather reflec­tive mood, imag­in­ing what advice I would give if I had the chance to speak to a younger me. I look for­ward to writ­ing Lessons Learned at 40 a decade later, I won­der what I’ll have to say then.

Favorite Blogs of 2009

December 30, 2009

in Reviews

My favorite blogs of 2009; the sig­nals amongst the noise that taught me new things, made me think dif­fer­ent, and made me want to write bet­ter.

43 Fold­ers

To me, Mer­lin Mann is the san­est voice in all of pro­duc­tiv­ity blog­ging (well, most times). He pointed out that if you’re spend­ing a lot of time read­ing pro­duc­tiv­ity blogs about how to be more pro­duc­tive, you really just need to get your ass back to work. Amen. I love this man’s hon­esty and the way he writes; funny, con­ver­sa­tional and chocked full of thought.

Try Real Advice Hurts, The Prob­lem with “Feel­ing Cre­ative”, and NaNoW­riMo: A Pep Talk and a Warn­ing. If you have 37 min­utes and 22 sec­onds, watch Make­be­lieve Help, Old Butch­ers, and Fig­ur­ing Out Who You Are (For Now). Long, but awesome.

Chi­ron

Rory Miller wrote the excel­lent Med­i­ta­tions on Vio­lence: A Com­par­i­son of Mar­tial Arts Train­ing & Real World Vio­lence and Chi­ron is his per­sonal blog. It’s not always an easy read, he writes about aspects of vio­lence and psy­chol­ogy that I think most of us liv­ing in cosy, peace­ful lives don’t want to know about. But it’s real, and it opens my eyes. He recently wrote that “Chi­ron isn’t about grow­ing read­er­ship and I’m not writ­ing for you. We all know that.” I love that. Iron­i­cally, I think that com­mit­ment to hon­esty on his part is what dri­ves peo­ple to read his blog anyway.

Blog as Self-Discovery

December 29, 2009

in Blogging

I’ve been writ­ing here in 21 for about a year before I dis­cov­ered a direc­tion I’m com­fort­able with going for the next year or so, and that’s about liv­ing the cre­ative life.

It seems obvi­ous in ret­ro­spect – I’m a full-time writer who’s also been a full-time 3D artist, who stud­ied dig­i­tal media design in school and loves cre­ative arts like graphic design and pho­tog­ra­phy. Big duh.

But I always thought of them as sep­a­rate things (well, they are). Sub­dued by the belief that only peo­ple who spe­cial­ize are seri­ous pro­fes­sion­als, I thought of myself as a wannabe Jack-of-all-trades goof­ball, instead of real­iz­ing that the one denom­i­na­tor that links all of them up is the act of creativity.

So there it is. I dig the cre­ative act and I want to write more about it. Thing is, I don’t think I would have been able to fig­ure that far out if I hadn’t been writ­ing about ran­dom top­ics at 21. The act of writ­ing, think­ing and look­ing back at what I’ve writ­ten has been as much a jour­ney of self-discovery as it has been an act of self-expression.

And that’s one unfor­tu­nate aspect, I think, of some of the blogs out there that are try­ing to make it too hard, too fast. They spe­cial­ize too early and then lock them­selves in, with­out allow­ing them­selves the chance to grow, explore and change.

Con­tin­u­ing from Parts 1 & 2 of my recent pho­to­graphic trip to Tokyo, Japan, where I con­tinue my explo­ration of street photography.

Tokyo - Lady at the Crossroads

After grab­bing a quick break­fast at the con­ve­nience store right next to this junc­tion, I hung around while wait­ing for a call. I noticed the light was lovely that morn­ing, took out my cam­era and started shoot­ing. There’s some­thing I like about this one. Makes me think of my own soli­tary early morn­ing com­mutes to work, feel­ing like the weight of the day ahead was already upon me even before I’d started.

Tokyo - Mother & Daughter

This was shot at another cross­roads, about half an hour later at Omote­sando Street. I spot­ted this beau­ti­ful mother and daugh­ter pair from across the road and snapped a few pho­tos, feel­ing again that mix­ture of excite­ment at get­ting a good shot and ner­vous­ness at dis­turb­ing some­one else’s privacy.

Tokyo - Star

This was a happy acci­dent. I prob­a­bly didn’t think too much of the shot at the time, and only saw this result later back at home. It’s not the best of com­po­si­tions, but I love how the over­ex­posed sky ele­vates the star from a Christ­mas orna­ment to some­thing alto­gether mystical.

Tokyo - Gentleman

Omote­sando Street, if you’re not famil­iar with it, is one of the glitzier shop­ping areas in Tokyo, with high-end bou­tiques and beau­ti­ful shop­ping cen­ters. Its stores are filled with exquis­ite items, which are usu­ally pretty high-priced, and its streets are filled with beau­ti­ful peo­ple – I saw some of the best dressed peo­ple I’ve ever seen here.

Con­tin­u­ing from Part 1 of my recent pho­to­graphic trip to Tokyo, Japan.

Tokyo - Temple Umbrella

The one day we went out of the city was the one day it kept driz­zling. Instead of being dis­ap­pointed though, I won­dered if I could take advan­tage of the rainy weather. Sure enough, I real­ized that there were many beau­ti­ful col­ors and pat­terns in the umbrel­las that peo­ple were car­ry­ing. In this shot, I love how the color of the umbrella com­ple­ments the color of the tem­ple in the background.

There was a price to shoot­ing in the rain though. I real­ized very soon that I couldn’t shoot hold­ing both an umbrella and a Canon 7D DSLR at the same time, so I aban­doned the umbrella and walked around in the driz­zle, tuck­ing the cam­era into my jacket when­ever I wasn’t shoot­ing. Although it got really cold with the rain and the wind (around 10 degrees Cel­sius), I was more wor­ried about the rain get­ting onto my DSLR than get­ting onto me! The Canon peo­ple assured me that the 7D was weather-proof, but I kept wip­ing rain­drops off as fast as I could.

Tokyo - Bird

This is one of my favorite shots taken dur­ing the trip. I was wan­der­ing around the tem­ple grounds when I noticed a spot where a few white birds were hang­ing around. I parked myself there and waited for them to start fly­ing around, which they were quite happy to do every once in a while.